On Single Blessedness
Bakit di ka pa nag-aasawa? (Why are you not getting married?) A query asked so many times. Life is indeed unfair because there are many unwritten rules in the society which are unjust to humanity. One major issue is in relation to one’s vocation- whether single or married. What is the unwritten rule? Society will demand and judge you automatically that if you are not a priest or nun, you have to get married or else you are gay or lesbian inconsiderate of what you know to be be who really you are. Judged already by societal standards using rubrics fabricated from the one side of the coin. Others will even say that if you are “good looking” you are either gay/lesbian or taken. These are toxic ideas or fallacies which are affecting one’s mental hygiene. Society is very cruel. These are not true and people believe it to be true. Just because this is ascribed by the multitude. That’s why they marry for wrong reasons and just end up in the statistics of broken marriages, the trend nowad...